I had the privilege of speaking at the Convocation on the Rural Church, sponsored by Duke Divinity School this month. The conference setting was the beautiful Kingston Plantation Resort at Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, and the weather was great for a few days at the beach.
The group attending the Convocation on the Rural Church were United Methodist pastors because much of the funding came from the Duke endowment. We had a wonderful 3-days with the group of about 100 pastors and spouses.
The first night of the conference we all gathered for a kick-off banquet. Debbie and I found our seats at a table with 6 other men and women. As we got to know each other, we noticed that the question of location came up several times.
But instead of asking, “Where is your church located?” or “What church do you pastor?” The question was almost always asked this way —
Where do you serve?
Debbie noticed it first, and then I started to pay attention to how these rural United Methodist pastors identified themselves. The idea of service, not status, prevailed throughout the conference. Of course, maybe I’m making a mountain out of the proverbial mole hill. But I was touched, if I may get a little maudlin here, by the phrase used throughout the event, as one pastor identified him or herself to another.
“Where do you serve?” seems a much more genteel and appropriate question than “What church do you pastor?” The emphasis is on ministry as service, not status, and I liked that. I’m going to try to remember to ask that question the next time I meet a pastor and need to know where he or she ministers. “Where do you serve?” is a great way to identify what we do as pastors and leaders.